Do you stop loving?

no girls, i'm not talking about those ppl whom you bump into by chance, totally fall for and have what i term, a crush. soon enough, the infatuation is over, and you can't see why you fell for this someone in the first place. the crush dies its natural death, and everything's back to normal.

here, i talk of love. those whom you love more than anything else, may be even more than yourselves. how do you stop loving people? you may have been someone's girlfriend and broken up. but if it was cos you really loved him that you were his girlfriend, you can never possibly get over him. you may move on with your life, but i feel you never really stop loving someone. once loved by a woman, always loved. thats my perspective. the person you love may do horrible things, may walk out on you, may infact, never talk to you again. but the reasons why you fell in love with him will always be the same, and you will always love him .. almost unconditionally! much as you'd tell yourself that now that you've moved on, you wont feel anything for him anymore, i'm pretty sure the next time you see him(be it even with your/his spouse), you'll find yourself going weak in the knees. well, may be thats how we were made to be. made to love, always!